Thanks for this. My path was a bit different from yours; I was so afraid of the ostracization and bullying that I didn't even let myself be aware of who I was until I was in my 20's. I still remember one time in high school when the typical, hateful rumors were flying around about the most recent kid involuntarily outed to the rest of the school. I remember thinking to myself, "If I was gay, I'd have to kill myself." Obviously, there was a part of me that knew, though at the time I did not recognize this thought as a decision. Being able and willing to fly under the radar is both a blessing and a curse; I have no idea which way of growing up is more damaging - possibly neither - they are just damaging in different ways. All I know is that neither of us should have had to navigate that minefield of aggressive animosity and isolation, queer kids are made to do. I now embrace "Queer." It is the best word ever!
You surely had a tough time growing up, Robin. It is so good that you can accept who you really are. If others can't then they are the ones with a problem.
As always, thank you for this, Robin <3 Hell yes, we're queer! I love that you call it cozy and sweet and home. I feel that way too! Grateful to be in community with you under this beautiful big queer umbrella <3
Thanks for this. My path was a bit different from yours; I was so afraid of the ostracization and bullying that I didn't even let myself be aware of who I was until I was in my 20's. I still remember one time in high school when the typical, hateful rumors were flying around about the most recent kid involuntarily outed to the rest of the school. I remember thinking to myself, "If I was gay, I'd have to kill myself." Obviously, there was a part of me that knew, though at the time I did not recognize this thought as a decision. Being able and willing to fly under the radar is both a blessing and a curse; I have no idea which way of growing up is more damaging - possibly neither - they are just damaging in different ways. All I know is that neither of us should have had to navigate that minefield of aggressive animosity and isolation, queer kids are made to do. I now embrace "Queer." It is the best word ever!
You surely had a tough time growing up, Robin. It is so good that you can accept who you really are. If others can't then they are the ones with a problem.
As always, thank you for this, Robin <3 Hell yes, we're queer! I love that you call it cozy and sweet and home. I feel that way too! Grateful to be in community with you under this beautiful big queer umbrella <3