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THIS. Thank you for putting this to words, Robin. It's exhausting getting medical care as a trans person. After the ER visits back in June, I'm still terrified to seek care if I need it. I know I'll work through this, and I'm still working towards finding a provider who specifically serves trans folks (for trans-specific care and just in general), but it doesn't change my anger that any of us experience this in the first place.

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I am right there with you. I wonder how many of us are feeling this way. We all deserve better.

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We really do <3

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This rings so similar to accessing care as a disabled person. It is a weird irony that in order to have a good healthcare experience you must be an abled thin/slim white straight cis man. So...as long as you are in good health and fit the status quo (*cough* the primary body studied by medicine in North America and Europe *cough*), and therefore need little more than a healthcare check up, going to the doctor is fine. *deep beleaguered sigh*

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This is an important parallel. Thanks for adding it here. You're totally right. It's a shame so many important groups are neglected in studies and in care.

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It's the marginalised reality of wondering: "Will my experience of my own body be believed?"

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Thank you, Robin, for another glimpse into your world. Certainly, more needs to be done so that everyone can access proper medical care.

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